Terence creative’s wife Milly Chebby has opened up on a miscarriage that saw her lose her baby at week 13 of her pregnancy in 2017.
In a recent Vlog, Milly and Terence shared the emotional story revealing that after five years of dating they decided to get a baby but unfortunately the pregnancy did not make to the last stage (delivery).
Milly states that the pregnancy was normal until week five when she experienced unusual spotting. (Spotting- is a form of vaginal bleeding during pregnancy and normally happens during the first trimester).
Upon visiting the hospital, an ultrasound scan was done and informed that the baby was fine but cautioned not to strain so much until the first trimester is over.
Light bleeding, or spotting, during pregnancy is common, especially during the first trimester.
“The Bay was okay… I was so excited and given medicine to protect the baby. I was told it was normal to spot, " said Milly.
“So she told me kuwa amespot and what I knew ni kuwa demu hafai kuspot kama ako na ball its dangerous. We went to hospital this was the first time we were being introduced to the scanning machine. She was told not to partake or carry heavy things until the baby is well seated in the womb, as the first trimester is very risky,” explained Terence.
However, in week 13 she experienced another spotting.
“We went to the hospital to get checked but the guy kept on repeating the procedure. Then he told me the pregnancy was smaller than 13 weeks. Looking at my friend and my sister who were in the same room with and how they were trying to balance their tears and I knew things were not okay. I screamed. So I’m told the baby died at 7 weeks three days. So basically I was carrying a dead baby for roughly another 7 weeks because I was at week 13 seven days,” said Milly.
The couple was advised to consider evacuation, so that the dead baby can be removed safely from the mother’s womb.
“They said we have to do evacuation. We asked the Hospital how much it will cost and they tell us some crazy figures. We opted to go to another hospital not even to do the evacuation but my wife was still in denial. We said lets go to another hospital to confirm if what this hospital is saying is the truth. We went to another hospital did the scan still there was no heartbeat. The result were the same" narrated Terence Creative
After days of living in denial, the couple agreed to undergo an evacuation process, to do away with the dead baby.
Despite the unfortunate events that happened in 2017, the two love birds were blessed with a beautiful baby girl in 2018 named Milla.